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 The Best Gift Ever For Kids!
 

Dear Blog Friends,

As you're making fun plans for your kids for Valentine's Day, I just want to remind you to remember your spouse! I don't think anyone had to remind us of that when we were newlyweds. Kids have a way of changing things, don't they?

Someone wise (maybe Dr. Dobson?) once said that the best gift you can give to your kids is to love your spouse. Think about that for a moment.

I also read recently that kids are happier in unhappy (not abusive) marriages than in amicable divorces. If you think Christians (or home school) families are immune to divorce, think again. The rate of Christians divorcing is higher than the national average of divorce among the general population.

I'll share a fun Valentine's Day idea later this week, but before I do, I want to ask you to take a little marriage inventory as your first Valentine's Day project this year.

First, knowing that an unhappy marriage is better than an amicable divorce, recommit yourself to your marriage. If your marriage seems irreparably damaged, give your kids a Valentine's Day gift and see a marriage counselor. If your spouse won't go with you, go alone. I'm not necessarily a huge Dr. Phil fan, but he once said, "If you have kids, you have to EARN your way out of a marriage." Don't bail out, freak out or fall out. Hang IN there. Get the help you need. Maybe this Valentine's Day is the perfect time to renew your wedding vows or take a mini-second honeymoon.

Second, if your marriage is "okay," make a plan to make it great! What special thing could you do for your spouse for Valentine's Day that would go above and beyond? You don't have to spend lots of money to say "I love you." Just take 10 minutes and give it some thought. Gifts are nice, but time together is better. Plan the ultimate date night. Or, do a breakfast or lunch date.

And no, taking the kids along does NOT count as a romantic evening anywhere! Maybe you could trade kids with a friend and each get an evening out. She's just as desperate as you are and is probably hoping for a friend like you to call and offer a suggestion! If nothing else, plan a romantic evening once the kids are in bed.

Love...a better gift than a box of chocolates. And that's saying a lot coming from me!

Happy Home Schooling,
Mrs. Sherry
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 Forming a Pre-k Co-Op
 

Q: Can you tell me about the pre-k co-op you were in last year? What books did you use? Thanks, Shawnee

A: I'd love to tell you all about it! We had a lot of fun, and a co-op was the perfect way for our family to do pre-school economically as home schoolers. Here are the steps I took to get it together.

1. I decided to be the organizer and lead teacher. I chose the following books to use as our core: A Beka ABC-123, A Beka Little Books 1-10, and Stories and Language Skills by Jean Warren, published by Mailbox.

2. I invited two other families I trusted from our church to join us who had children the same age.

3. We met from 9am-noon once a week at our home. The pre-kindergarten students met with me in our "school room," while the other two moms took turns watching all the younger siblings in a play area in our basement (that means that mom #3 got a three hour break!). All the children came together for a snack in the middle of the morning. Occasionally, I read a story or did an activity with all the kids after snack time, especially during holiday seasons.

4. Each week, the pre-k students and I began with prayer and calendar activities. Then, I read the story of the month (selected from the Mailbox book listed above.) The students completed two pages from the A Beka ABC 123 book with me, then I sent "homework" with them each week to complete at home and bring back for a sticker. After snack, we did literary activities together inspired by the Mailbox book. I usually did extra activities to match the month or upcoming holiday as well.

Each child also took a turn reading to me each week from their Little Book while the other 2 played or worked; they also had reading "homework" assigned each week, and filled in an incentive sheet for a monthly prize for reading. (FYI: We did not complete the long vowel sound pages in the ABC 123 book, but did most of the rest of the book.)

5. Each family was responsible to pay for their own books, and they also paid a fee to me for photocopies and teaching supplies at the beginning of each semester (around $10 a semester, I think.) The other two moms also "paid me back" by babysitting my kids 2 additional hours a month. We took turns providing snacks.

I prepared a monthly 1-sheet newsletter that listed the childcare and snack rotation, the story of the month, skills we'd be covering, and any special field trips or upcoming activities. The other two families did give me a great, unexpected gift certificate to our local "teacher store" at the end of the year. I felt like the co-op system that gave me free babysitting was fair; one mom traded me for home-cooked meals occasionally because she had fewer hours to offer for babysitting. That was great with me!

My co-op experience was great! My kids had the chance to develop great friendships, and I found that I prepared above and beyond what I might normally when I had other kids coming to learn and play. There are several fun pre-k activities that are just more fun when you have a group of children instead of just one or two.

I enjoyed doing the teaching, and the other moms were glad for me to do it. I think they appreciated my organizing at home activities for them to do the other days they were home with their kids. I'd definitely do a co-op again under the right circumstances!

I hope you'll consider co-op teaching. It offers great benefits to both parents and children. I think that the key is to formally agree to expectations up front. Having a small group is also a plus.

There are lots of ways to trade time and talents, with many different ways to make co-op arrangements. If you have more questions, let me know.

Happy Home Schooling,
Mrs. Sherry
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 Dino-Mite Resources
 



Q: Do you have any suggestions for resources that teach about dinosaurs for elementary students from a creation science viewpoint?

A: These are the three main resources I used with my kindergarten student recently:

1. Book: The Great Dinosaur Mystery and the Bible by Paul S. Taylor, published by Faith Kidz/Cook Communications; This book has great information, and though some of it is advanced, my 5 year old was still interested.

2. DVD: The Riddle of the Dinosaurs, produced by Answers in Genesis, featuring an "animated lecture" by Mike Riddle. Be forewarned, that this DVD features more lecture than animation. The information is great, but it was a little much for my 5 year old. He did stick it out, but lost interest in the middle for a while. The DVD does have a fun interactive Q/A feature. You can get more information on this DVD as well as other creation science resources at www.answersingenesis.org.

3. Coloring/Activity Book: God's Dinosaurs Fun Book, by Earl and Bonita Snellenberger, published by Master Books, P.O. Box 727, Green Forest, AR, 72638. This is a simple little coloring book I purchased at our local Christian book store for less than $2.

Since I was a teacher by profession before I was a mom, I am blessed with files on just about every subject under the sun. In addition to using the resources listed above, we did fun dinosaur-themed art projects and other activities. A simple Google search should provide you with all you need.

Happy Home Schooling,
Mrs. Sherry
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 A Gift of Love for Valentine's Day
 

Q: Do you have any fun ideas for Valentine's Day?

A: I just got a great idea from a friend today! I was complaining about how much I don't like to play Legos with my son, but felt guilty about telling him "no" all the time. I want to share his interest, but building a 1,000 piece Lego airplane is enough to drive me crazy!

My friend suggested I create "Lego coupons" for my son to redeem. So, I went to the DLTK website (see link to the right) and printed up some great coupons to make little gifts for each of my kids for Valentine's Day. To find the coupon making option, go to the DLTK home page and click on greeting cards. (FYI: I made only 3 "Lego coupons" for 20 minutes each so I can keep my sanity; I made several others from the pre-made selections and created a few extra of my own. The only Valentine's Day themed picture I could find was Blue's Clues, so I got creative.)

I am really excited to give him the coupons, because they will say to him, "Hey! Even though this isn't my favorite thing to do, you're my favorite little guy, and I'll do what you like, just because I love you!" Isn't that what I try to get him to do all the time anyway when he has friends over to play??? Hmmm... teach by example... interesting concept!

The gift of time is a great way to show your love for Valentine's Day. I don't think that children perceive school time as quality time in the same way we do as adults. Our kids need our time, not just as their teachers, but also as their moms and dads. Play time, in fact, may be even more important to our building relationships with them than school time.

Look for more Valentine's Day ideas coming soon!

Blessings,
Mrs. Sherry

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 Scripture Memory Verse Helps
 

Q: I try to make up a song to help my child learn each memory verse she has for AWANAs, but it takes a lot of time to come up with something new for each verse. Is there a product that you know of that could help?

A: My kids aren't in AWANAs right now, but I know it's a wonderful program. If you visit http://store.awana.org, you can click on the store option and find scripture memory CD's or cassettes ($9.10 or $4.10, respectively) for the Cubbies and Sparks groups.

I also found an AWANA memory aid link at http://showcase.netins.net/web/awanapmc/index.shtml. This site features fill-in-the-blank style review sheets for each motto and verse. These would probably be helpful for older children, or for self-motivated, visual-learner kids who tend to enjoy sitting down and doing homework.

I also like the Steve Green "Hide 'Em in Your Heart" CD's for general scripture memory. My kids have learned every verse on the first CD, and love to listen to it over and over.

Music is a great way to learn almost anything, especially scripture.

Happy Singing!
Mrs. Sherry
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